Understanding the Barbie Butt Surgery - What Does It Achieve?

Ok, I know what the Barbie/Ken butt is, but I don't know what is achieved by sewing up your bum.

Can someone please explain? I would appreciate it.

Thanks, Tee

Hi C, once you have your colon removed and a full ileostomy, you don't need your butt. To eliminate any possible infection down there, it's best to remove the whole thing. I have a Ken butt, and it keeps me safe should I ever have to go to jail. Regards, IGGIE

Oh Iggy... good one!

My surgeon removed my colon but left my butt, so now I get to experience the wonderful world of mucus. I think she should have just done the whole thing, but everything is all closed up now, so I guess it isn't going to happen.

Lee

You can still have it removed; you're still young and you could be mucus-free. Regards, IGGIE

Living with Your Ostomy | Hollister

There is always a risk of getting cancer, and you can still get something similar to the piles I had that one time. Mucus can be a big problem for some. Mine was removed because I kept getting abscesses in there; I had some really nasty ones and had sepsis a few times from them. My ileostomy was always meant to be permanent from the start; everything was supposed to be removed, but the doctor went against my consent and left my rectum and anus in, so that's what caused my problems.

Thanks for the replies! I have an ileostomy and my surgeon left my rectum and anus. I've had a few incidents regarding mucus, but they've all presented as an urgent need to push, and what has come out has been compacted, dime-sized bits of nothingness.

When you mention problems with mucus, are you experiencing frequent painful bouts like I've described? I once had a nurse tell me some people have to wear incontinence pads as they suffer from frequent and uncontrollable messes from runny mucus freely flowing from their butt. Was she telling me the truth about that?

For me, my cancer was so low they had to cut everything out. So, either sew me up or I die. 😁

As far as the uncontrollable mucus goes, I had a problem with that during my 3-month hospital stay and for the first couple of weeks after coming home. However, regular exercise and my daily 3-mile walks have made that a non-issue. I do push out mucus every couple of days or so, sometimes a couple of times a day, and there is some minor seepage I clean up during my multitude of daily bag chores. Thus far, no real issues. However, I am only 10 months into this. :-)

Daniel

Thank you, Daniel.

I've only passed mucus half a dozen times since my surgery almost 2 years ago, and even then I had to push it out. Do those who undergo Barbie Butt surgery have it done because the mucus freely comes out (needing incontinence pads)?

For those who experienced a lot of free-flowing mucus, did it occur shortly after surgery and during your convalescence, or did it start later?

I have no need to have the surgery at the moment.

I really appreciate your messages.

My free-flowing mucus slowed down over time after my surgery. It is now perfectly controllable, except for the minor seepage I mentioned. And that is very minor. I suppose the amount I walk and the pelvic floor exercises I do may have something to do with that. But, my understanding is that it slows with time. Like everything else with all this, different strokes for different folks. That part can be rather frustrating at times. But, it does keep life interesting and an interesting life is all we can ask for. :-)

Daniel

Greetings,

I just had my Ken Butt surgery on October 9th (last Monday).

The stump that the doctor left in me was in hope of reconnection at a later time.

The ileo was done in 2016.

Mucus then was bloody from the rear.

Several meds over the next six years diminished the blood, but mucus, about the size of a teaspoon, kept coming out whenever I did anything, like coughing, sneezing, getting in and out of a car, bending, etc. A spit would discharge.

We found Crohn's in the rectum.

It was a no-brainer to decide to have it removed.

My doctor also warned about it becoming cancerous if left alone.

He also said six years after surgery is the Hail Mary approach. If nothing gets done, you say your prayers.

A cutoff date is 6 years. If you keep it without issues, you are very lucky.

I saw a post here about a lady with an ileo for 20 years. She was deciding whether or not to remove it and was researching Barbie butts.

Best of luck deciding what to do.

Hi C, if you are 100% sure that you're going to stay with a stoma, I would consider thinking about having your rectum removed. You're young enough to go mucus-free. Regards, IGGIE

It depends on why the surgery is being done. If it is for cancer, you need to get margins to hopefully prevent recurrence. If it is for inflammatory bowel disease, a retained rectum could lead to drainage, fistulas, and infection. Keeping your rectum/anus will have problems of mucous drainage.

It is permanent.

Hi C, give it some thought and talk to your surgeon. Regards, IGGIE

Yes, she was telling the truth. I've been dealing with it for almost 2 years. I'm having the Barbie butt surgery in 10 days as that's the only way it's going to stop. I've had 3 different doctors tell me it could develop cancer too, so I'm all for getting it done. I see no point in taking that risk.

Hi, long time no hear from. So, if you have to get the surgery, do it, but I don't recommend it because it sucks. I'm 4 years out of surgery, and it still hasn't closed up completely yet, and the stitches in the crack area hurt like hell, so it takes an awful long time to heal too. Remember that.

You should have that looked into. After that long, it should be healed, or your doctor needs to do something about it.

Spot on there, Alex.

4 years? Have it looked at. Something is wrong there.

I had 2 complications after my kenn butt. Was healed in 8 months—that's from day 1 of surgery—8 months later...

Back to work in the 8th month.

Did you say you still have stitches in there after 4 years? Have you talked to your surgeon about this?

Regards, IGGIE

Oh no, my bad. What I meant to say was when you get the stitches, they hurt like hell. Even after they're taken out, it still hurts. Some people heal quickly; others don't. I'm one of those ones that didn't.

That's why 99.9% of people receive dissolvable stitches.

They were dissolvable. I was talking about how painful they were.

🤔 never had pain from mine. 🤷‍♂️

@ Freepizza-

You don't recommend it (Barbie butt) because it sucks, and still, after 4 years, you are having issues.

You need to add one more important detail that's quite fitting.

"It didn't work for me, but it might work for you because for me... yadda yadda yadda."

I respectfully disagree with you, sir, because you are the minority here with one bad experience, which could be from an unskilled physician or perhaps you weren't able to sit still and be inactive as per doctors' orders.

The operation has more advantages to it than not having it.

You may need to speak to your doctor about bridging the two cheeks together to aid in healing the closed wound at your butt hole.

Yes. You read that right. Maybe it's a neat trick they do to protect the wound from opening up, but this "bridge" takes pressure off the butt wound.

Some of us have had this done.

Now here's the best way to sell this:

"It worked for me and several others. It may work for you."

That's backup support talking.

Fact vs. fiction.

Okay, now let the jokes come forth..🤣

I agree with Warrior; there are more advantages than disadvantages, but mine still feels awful 9 months after surgery. I feel like I have a lump of something stuck underneath where it was stitched up, and it also feels sore and tight. I still can't sit on it comfortably.

I knew I'd take a long time to heal, as I had chemoradiotherapy and Papillon treatment previously that didn't work out. I'm just hoping that one day I'll start to feel normal again 😊

Yes, if it's done correctly, the Barbie or Ken butt will be a good decision.

Yes, it takes a bit of time.

People will heal differently.

What you are feeling is likely that bridge I think the surgeon does... it's ironic.

He does that to protect your butt and his own.

Yes, it hurts. Tender area.

Sometimes there is a leak. Spotting of blood.

Fixable in a doctor's office.

💯% pro surgery. Depending on circumstances, of course.

Age, health, etc.

Thanks for the information about the bridge; it makes sense. 👍