I wanted to reach out and ask if anyone here has ever felt their surgery was not done correctly or left incomplete.
I had my ileostomy surgery in 2017, and just two days after being discharged, I experienced my first extremely painful blockage. Since then, I've had around 80 blockages. On two occasions, I had to undergo the NG tube procedure in the hospital, which left me extremely weak and underweight. After those experiences, I chose to manage blockages at home—typically involving violent vomiting in the middle of the night, followed by recovery over 1–3 days.
Now, things have become more complicated. I've been diagnosed with a Hill Grade 4 hiatal hernia, where part of my stomach has shifted into my chest cavity, along with Jackhammer esophagus. My GERD is severe to the point where I cannot sleep lying flat. The local surgeon has recommended a fundoplication to correct it, but I am deeply concerned. My fear is that if I were ever to vomit afterward, it could rupture, which seems incredibly dangerous given my condition. Being constricted both “upstairs” and “downstairs” feels like a recipe for disaster.
Another major issue is that my ileostomy orifice is extremely small—about the size of a urethra opening. Eating normally is simply not an option for me, as it almost guarantees another blockage.
I would especially value hearing from anyone with actual GI expertise or personal experience with similar challenges. I'm not looking for generic advice—I truly want to learn from others who have lived this or worked directly with these issues.
For context, I finally persuaded my PCP to refer me to a GI specialist, and she advised against the surgery—even though both the surgeon and the PCP strongly recommended moving forward. I plan on changing PCPs soon, but for now, I'm awaiting a double contrast MRI in two days to gather more information.
Wish me luck, and thank you for any insights or stories (good or bad) you're willing to share.
—DB


