This may seem like a strange question to be asking, but I've noticed that a majority of people with an ostomy that take part in forums like this one are just plain nasty. I've had my ostomy for 16 years and just once in a while I'll hop on a forum to see if there is someone who needs help or understanding about their health problems and every time I discover that most of the posts are dirty jokes, nasty language, and obscene suggestions. You would think that a physical problem of this sort would attract loving and caring people that are anxious to be helpful, but not so. It makes me ashamed to admit that I'm an ostomate. I hope I can keep it a secret.
![Gray Logo for MeetAnOstoMate](/images/en/logo-short-grey.png?v=5)
Why Join MeetAnOstoMate?
First off, this is a pretty cool site with 35,000 members who truly understand you.
It's not all about ostomy. We talk about everything.
Many come here for advice or to give advice, others have found good friends, and some have even found love. Most importantly, people here are honest and genuinely care.
🛑 Privacy is very important - we have many features that are only visible to members, ensuring a safe and secure environment for you to share and connect.
Create an account and you will be amazed by the warmth of this community.
Advertisement
Hollister
It's natural to feel stressed about possible relationship issues related to your ostomy.
Explore common concerns about new and existing relationships, and how to put your mind at ease.
Explore common concerns about new and existing relationships, and how to put your mind at ease.
Advertisement
Hollister
Most contraceptives are equally effective for people with and without stomas.
Learn more about contraception or family planning methods with an ostomy.
Learn more about contraception or family planning methods with an ostomy.