Topic Explanation:
The initial post shares the author's journey with ulcerative colitis, leading to surgery and life with an ostomy. It details the decision-making process, preparation for surgery, the surgical experience, and the initial days post-surgery.

Advice and Insights:
- Prior notice and preparation for surgery can help in educating oneself about the procedure and managing expectations.
- Joining online communities and watching videos about ostomy experiences can provide valuable insights and prepare individuals for the challenges ahead.
- Preparing a list of contacts, duties, and final services in case of the worst can help alleviate concerns before surgery.
- After surgery, it's advisable to avoid getting a flu shot immediately and to focus on hydration and adjusting to a new diet to manage ostomy output.
- Sharing experiences and seeking advice from the ostomy community can help in addressing issues such as skin irritation and managing ostomy equipment.
- The emotional aspect of surgery and life with an ostomy can be challenging, and it's normal to have concerns and fears. Seeking support from the community and sharing experiences can provide reassurance and guidance.

Replies 2-14:
- Replies 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 9, 10, 11, 12, and 13 offer support, welcome the author to the community, and provide advice and insights based on their own experiences with ostomy surgery and life with an ostomy.
- Reply 14 expresses gratitude for the detailed experience shared and reflects the fear and confusion about undergoing surgery and coping with the concept of a permanent ostomy.