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Jun 15, 2011

It's in the Bag and Under the Covers: Stories of Love and Ostomy

This topic is about a book titled "It’s in the Bag and Under the Covers," which is the fourth book by Brenda Elsagher, a comedian, author, and national speaker. The book is a collection of real-life stories from people with ostomies, focusing on their experiences with dating, sex, intimacy, and caregiving. The aim is to break down taboos, provide practical reassurance, and demonstrate that life continues after ostomy surgery.

Here are some key points and insights about the book:

1. Medical professionals have praised the book. Dr. Judith L. Trudel from the University of Minnesota highlights how it showcases courage, grace, and the triumph of love after undergoing body-altering surgery.

2. Robert Rose, a registered nurse from Texas, describes the book as essential reading for anyone living with an ostomy or caring for someone who does.

3. Nancy Scott, a WOC nurse from Florida, mentions that the stories in the book reassure readers that having an ostomy pouch is not the end of the world.

4. Brenda Elsagher, the author, was diagnosed with colorectal cancer at 39. She transitioned from being a small-business owner to a comedian and keynote speaker, aiming to bring humor and hope to those facing challenges.

5. Some readers believe the book's material could be adapted into a documentary or film to further raise awareness and normalize discussions about ostomies, intimacy, and body image. One reader even expressed interest in participating in such a project.
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