Topic Explanation
The forum topic is about discussing experiences and sharing tips on navigating intimacy with an ostomy. The initial post describes the challenges and discomfort the author faces during intimate moments due to their ostomy, and how they have adapted to the situation.

Advice and Insights
- It's important to be comfortable with oneself and the changes to the body before expecting comfort with a partner.
- Some individuals use small pouches without a spout that can't be emptied for intimacy to maintain spontaneity.
- Using a bandeau or tube top can hold the bag in place and boost confidence during intimacy.
- The Stealth Belt is recommended for holding the ostomy bag in place and making it less noticeable during intimate moments.
- Communication and understanding from the partner are crucial for building comfort and confidence during intimacy.
- Some individuals have found success in using pouch covers or custom-made fabric covers to reduce the visibility and discomfort of the ostomy bag during intimacy.
- It's important to be comfortable with oneself first, and those around will be comfortable with you.
- For those hesitant about dating due to their ostomy, it's suggested to trust oneself to know when and if to disclose the condition to a potential partner.
- The location and age can influence the dating experience, and personality matters more as people age.
- There are products like the Stealth Belt designed to hold the ostomy bag in place during intimacy, providing security and discretion.
- It's important to consider the specific needs and challenges of gay men with an ostomy when discussing intimacy and dating.

Insights from the Replies
- The forum platform may have formatting issues, causing replies to appear as large paragraphs.
- The impact of an ostomy on dating and intimacy can vary based on factors such as gender, age, nationality, and location.
- The attractiveness and physical attributes of individuals can influence their dating experiences, and the nature of dating can change as people age.
- There are products like the Stealth Belt designed to provide security and discretion during intimacy, which can be particularly helpful for gay men with an ostomy.
- Some individuals may feel hesitant to rejoin the dating scene due to their ostomy, and seeking support and advice from the community can be beneficial.