This topic is about someone who recently had ostomy surgery and is feeling quite isolated. After the surgery, they returned home with very little guidance and supplies, and no follow-up care from a visiting nurse. This has made managing their ostomy appliance a challenging experience, with incidents like nighttime leaks that require changing sheets and showering. Feeling alone and knowing no one else with an ostomy, they are looking for a local support group. They express gratitude for the kindness and help they have found online, describing the website as a "godsend."

Here are some pieces of advice and insights that might be helpful:

1. Online communities can be a great source of knowledge and emotional support, especially when local resources are limited or unavailable.

2. For local support, consider reaching out to the Sara-Tee Ostomy Chapter in Sarasota, Florida. You can contact Maurice J. White at 941-798-2056 or Isabella Mallon at 941-921-3817. They might have information about meetings or other contacts in the area.

3. If you can't find a local group, continue using online forums for practical tips and solutions to both expected and unexpected challenges.

4. On an emotional level, remember that it's perfectly normal and healthy to cry. Letting your emotions out can be a therapeutic way to cope with the situation.