This topic is about someone looking for a book by Brenda Elsagher that focuses on dating and intimacy for people with an ostomy. They are seeking advice on where to find a copy, as they believe it could provide helpful guidance for their dating life.

Here are some suggestions and insights shared by others:

1. Reach out to the author directly. Some people have successfully obtained the book by emailing Brenda Elsagher through the advertisement on the forum page. She is known to ship books internationally, including to New Zealand.

2. If you are in New Zealand, you can contact the Canterbury Ostomy Society. They have copies of the book, and you can ask for Brent to help you arrange a purchase or borrowing.

3. Consider purchasing the book online. Brenda Elsagher’s book, “It’s in the Bag and Under the Covers,” which covers dating and intimacy, is available on Amazon. You can find it using this link: http://www.amazon.com/Its-Under-Covers-Brenda-Elsagher/dp/1936953137.

4. Explore other related titles by Brenda Elsagher on Amazon, such as “I’d Like to Buy a Bowel Please” and two additional books, which might also offer valuable insights.