This topic is about a person reflecting on a significant and emotional milestone in their life. They are marking the first anniversary of their ileostomy, affectionately named "Stomy," which was created after a major surgery. This date also holds deep personal significance as it would have been their 27th wedding anniversary with a spouse who passed away from cancer many years ago. The writer shares their journey of navigating both grief and gratitude, living with their daughter, and finding support in an online community. Here are some insights and advice shared by others in the community:

1. Community members express their appreciation for the writer's heartfelt reflection and encourage them to continue sharing their story.

2. They suggest that the writer, with their experiences and positive outlook, could offer valuable guidance to newcomers while also benefiting from the collective wisdom of the community.