Hi there and thank you for your comments XO.............. Just to explain how this wonderful 3 year Love of My Life experience came about . If I had missed her last call none of this would have happened but I answered .
I just wrote to Kitty's only Sister / Sibling and tried to tell her just how special Kitty was and continues to be. In my little house in Ireland I would often stand in front of the mirror shaving and
have a little chat with myself . " Eamon ", I would say . " You're not a bad looking fella , you have all, most, of your parts ( Colon missing in action ) and more importantly the really Fun parts still work Very well
so how come you still haven't found a woman who will put up with you ?? It seems a terrible waste to just fade away slowly and never feel a warm naked body next to you again , never hop in the shower and wash your
Lady's back with hot soapy water , never wake up to feel her warm breadth on your shoulder as she sleeps in your arms ." I always thought there must be at least one woman out there who will "get" me and put up with
me, who might even Love me . The problem is finding her or her finding me . I looked at Ostomy dating because I figured it would be more comfy if both people have a Baggie and from experience I can say that it is . I
found a site called , Ostodate, a lot of the people on this site are also on that site . I sent many, many little messages to ladies whose photo seemed to talk to me ...? It took a year or so until one lady wrote back more
than twice . She looked like a nice person and she had the most endearing big smile , an honest and genuine smile ,not just a smile for the camerea . From her words and the many messages she seemed to be a real
cutie and seemed like a genuine and very nice person . In Ireland I got sidetracked and did not write to her for a couple of months . One reason I had continued chatting was because this lovely lady lived in San Jose Ca .
I travel regularly to San Francisco and stay sometimes in San Mateo which is just down the highway a little from San Jose. My next trip would be around Aug 2017 when there is a car show in Reno Nevada at which my
Nephews would be showing their Hot Rods . In the excitement and planning I forgot to let my Pen Pal know exactly when I would be in Cal again. She said that I didn't write for weeks ( probably right ) and she was giving
up on me . She called me twice when I got to Cal and I missed both calls because we were heading straight to Reno the day after I arrived.
Third time lucky !! On the drive to Reno Kitty gave me one last chance to answer her call/ text and I finally answered and apologized profusely for neglecting her , Well we texted all the way from Berkeley across the
Sierra through Donner Pass and over Donner Summit ( The infamous Donner Party route ) . As we sped down the steep mountain grade heading for the tabletop flat desert plains of the Nevada desert I noticed the huge sand
piles placed regularly in offshoots of the highway . These are slow down ramps for runaway trucks which have lost their brakes , the trucks wheels get bogged down in the sand and hit the pile at the end to stop them . As
we were speeding down this mountain highway my future Love was planning our first face to face meeting for the day I would get back from Reno ...just 2 days away !!! I felt like that truck with the burned out brakes
roaring into the unknown. This was officially a DATE !!! I had not had a real Date in years , literally ...Years !! I had not kissed a woman on the lips for a very long time and as for sex !! well lets just say the term "
Physician heal thyself " or Every man for Himself comes to mind . I really am not embarassed to say that my sexual partner had been my right hand ( the left for a bit of variety sometimes lol )for quite a while lol
....come on !! you Ladies get busy with thosefingers as well when nobody's looking lol !! and as for the guys , when ( as Kitty called Him ) that Beastie Boy gets up a head of steam you just have to go for it ! lol ... I felt
positively Virginal on our first meeting , pure and untouched , unless you count the occasions when Self Service was the only way to get to sleep . In that department I was quite confident , Beastie Boy worked quite well
and if it got that far she would be happy. enough with the size and operation of my personal equipment . All I had to do was Not to PassOut from fear if we got to that stage .
I picked my brightest shirt and pants to match the beautiful August sunshine and Kitty wore a lovely Flowery dress .
All I want to say right now is . I behaved like a proper Gentleman and Kitty the perfect Lady ...until we drove to her house after a tasty Sushi lunch and "Atomic Blonde" the movie .
As they call those romantic, horny novels ...it was a bit of a " Bodice Ripper " as the evening wore on and the two Kiddies disappeared with the electronic gadgets and headphones ...lol
I though some readers might like to see the blow by blow account of that incredibly nerve-wracking first meeting . I must point out that we had been texting for a few months before Kitty called me on the way to Reno
so we already knew that we really liked each other online , liking each other when chatting face to face can often be a disappointing experience for a socially awkward person which I most assuredly was , quite shy
generally if not at ease with the other person .
We just clicked , like that final piece in the jigsaw puzzle , it completes the picture .