I wonder if anyone has any advice. I have had a stoma since I was a child and my problems have developed over my adult life, which has caused intense scarring and has left me unable to have sex. The thing is, I am a young woman, and of course I want to find love. But I have been burned by men's reactions in the past. One guy who I thought things were going well with said, "I think you need more than I can give" when I told him about my situation. When do I bring this up? Nobody wants to chat about sexual dysfunction on a first date, but I don't want to feel like I am stringing him along. I am also sick of the shame of hiding it though. I have fought long and hard for an answer, and I still hope surgeons can help me, but for now we are where we are. How would you approach this? I thought navigating the stoma was hard enough, but this for me is shattering.
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