Hi all, just waiting on a date for reversal, and am in turmoil whether or not to go ahead. I had perforated diverticulitis in 2022 and had a stoma. I manage fine with my stoma, so I wonder if I should risk possible complications. I am 55 and hope to retire to Spain in 2 years, and I ask myself will I regret the chance of this reversal in later years. My partner and son don't want me to go ahead with it because they are worried. Are there any folks out there who have had a reversal from Hartmann's procedure that might regret it for any reason? Arrrr, minds in turmoil. Also, is it okay to live with a rectal stump? I read something about the possible chance of being more susceptible to developing cancers, which is obviously a worry if I decide not to reverse.

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