I had a sigmoid colon rupture due to undiagnosed diverticulitis in August of 2024. I had emergency surgery with a Hartmann's procedure. I spent 6 days in the ICU due to septic peritonitis. It was a huge shock to wake up from all this to realize how badly my life had been in danger and that I now had a colostomy. The recovery was difficult. I developed an abscess in the lower abdominal/pelvic area that was excruciating. It was treated with antibiotics and a pigtail drain I had through my glute for more than 2 weeks. I even had much of my hair fall out. I was 57 years old and had been healthy prior to this, other than endometriosis years ago, which required me to have an ovary removed.
Four months later, right before Christmas, I had a complete bowel obstruction that required another emergency surgery. The recovery wasn't as bad, but again was no walk in the park.
I have adjusted to the colostomy very well. I don't mind it other than the obvious.
I am now scheduled for a reversal in 3 weeks, and I am terrified. Honestly, reading about so many horror stories on this site has made that fear grow - even though I am grateful to know other people's experiences.
My question is, what are the pros and cons of the reversal?
Even if it is a successful procedure with no complications, I'm worried I will come out on the other side with urgency, leakage, etc., and that I'll still have lots of mysterious stomach pain from time to time like I do now (though the current pain has been likened to potentially be nerve pain, my parastomal hernia, or gas).
Is there even such a thing as being “back to normal” after this - especially with all the scar tissue and adhesions?