Hello all, my son is 20 and has a new colostomy 1 month post-op. He has pretty severe kyphosis (which I was assured wouldn't be a barrier by his surgeon), but I think she was wrong! He is hunched over all day when he sits up, and his ostomy pouch sits exactly in a skin fold. So it puckers at the fold area and leaks, no matter what I do. I checked him into the hospital for ostomy support, and they couldn't get it to adhere for more than 12 hours! They just tell me to keep trying different strategies, but I'm all out. I've tried adhesive extenders, rings, putty, paste, 20 different pouches, multiple adhesive remover brands, multiple skin prep brands... I warm the pieces so they'll stick... I've put pouches on crusted skin and non-crusted skin. Right now, I have to put on a new bag 2-3 times a day, and his skin is horribly broken down, which just adds to the difficulty. Anybody have something for me? I've put the beads into the bag (he has liquid stool), I empty the bag frequently, and I've tried a belt. Help!!!

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