The United Ostomy of America helps support local support group meetings throughout all areas. My local meetings are finally back after 2 1/2 years during Covid.
After my ileostomy and anal resection surgery in August 2019, only one week home from my month-long stay in the hospital (I had issues with infection), I went to my first meeting. A pillow in hand, thin and weak, a PICC line in my arm for meds, I walked in slowly. I couldn't sit and barely could stand but had to see if there were others like me.
I was welcomed with smiles and soft hugs from strangers that then instantly became my friends. Nurses from area hospitals and clinics offered advice, people with ostomies, urostomies, and ileostomies.
I was given a name badge and had to introduce myself. I couldn't stay as my pain was quite bad, but returned every month.
A meeting is typically 2 hours long—the first hour is discussing and lectures, then snack time and an hour of socializing.
They have tables of supplies one can go through and take what they need or products they want to try.
I learned so much from this group and on this site and am so grateful for them both.
If you're new or old to having yours, try a local group meeting; it may bring you comfort and new friends.
Ritz
