I just spent forever typing a message and lost it...ugh...wow and I was on a roll...ok, I'm going to try one more time...now...I have a colostomy and had rectal/anus cancer...since then, I've had surgeries for hernias...obstructions...all in all, I have been hospitalized at least 7 times after my cancer surgery...had surgeries for hernias and obstructions...last time was a big mess...had hernia repair...had more small intestine removed...adhesions and obstructions...thought my surgeon was going to have a breakdown...lol...anyway, I ended up with major complications...had 3 blood transfusions...infection in my kidneys...blood and lungs...stayed in intensive care unconscious for a week...they didn't think I would pull through...but voila...I beat the odds again and after 5 weeks in that place...I walked out...ok, wheeled out...anyway here's the story now...oh and keep in mind that I have lupus also...have a whole bunch of issues going on with stoma who I call "Harry"...and in having tests done found another big hernia lower stomach which is wrapped around my small intestines and there's a small obstruction...and a smaller one over my stoma that is causing me all kinds of issues...and they are very painful...ok so I go see a colorectal surgeon and he says that it would be a big surgery with complications and he feels that I wouldn't be able to survive it again...ugh...but if they get worse or the obstruction does well of course he would have to do emergency surgery...ok so I ask if there is anything I can use to like hold everything in place because my stomach is just mush and he says it would be more painful...so he increased my pain meds...woohoo...I already take pain meds for lupus...ok so I can't lift, bend, stretch, blah blah blah...and when I walk they hurt or climb stairs and when I stand I have to hold the bottom of my stomach...so unattractive...lol...holy moly...I'm a big ole mess...has anyone had these hernia problems continuously? Any ideas to maybe give me some kind of support for my stomach...I'm frustrated and quite frankly a little scared...seriously the last time was really bad...thanks, my friends, for listening and your support...xoxo
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