Hi Older,
Good question! Most of us didn't have an option... or at least weren't told we did, but now that you ask, I wonder what I would have picked? Many guys on here complain they can't tuck their shirts in with it above the belt line, which is true... there really aren't many ways to tuck a shirt in over a bag that needs to hang down over your belt line. But having it below the belt line would suck for me because whenever my pants slid down, which happens when I don't wear a belt, which is frequently, they'd snag on my barrier and probably pull the damn thing off. The other thing I'd be concerned with is a hernia. When normal folks get a hernia, it's usually in the area below the belly button line in the groin area, not above the line. So that would make me believe the groin area below the belly button line is more susceptible to a hernia forming. Punching another big hole right there and sticking a stoma through that one can't make the area any sounder... so I'd make it a point to discuss it with your surgeon or a hernia repair doc and see if it's smart to put a stoma below the line (I'm assuming your current stoma is also below your belt line). I've also heard that they cannot reuse a stoma site once it's been closed and the stoma has been relocated, and which side your stoma is put on depends on what type of ostomy you have... meaning the length of bowel determines which side it exits on. So if yours has to be on your right side and there's already a hole (and associated weak spot) there below your belt line... I would think that really the only other option would be to move it above. But there may be other surgical details I'm not considering.
I would think if your stoma simply pulls in when you stand up that there's not enough slack in your intestines below the skin surface. Could be from adhesions or a stricture or whatever, so they'll address that. But since they're going in anyway, have you considered having them just extend the stoma a bit so it sticks out further and leaving it in the same location... or is there another reason it has to be moved?
Very curious to hear what you decide... and why. We might all need that info in the future for a similar decision!!!
;O)