People I've met that have pouches either leave on a tank-shirt and wear a wafer belt to prevent the pouch from comming loose/leaking or just let the top of the pouch show. Who cares? It's a medical necessity that none of us should be ashamed of; on the contrary, should be PROUD of. Like a badge of honor! We all are strong people that have survived and fought against the toughest odds and came out alive and living life like everyone else (or at least, trying to) and may (or may not have) become more spiritual and appreciative of our lives (even the little things) in general! We are lucky to be alive and should be proud of ourselves for surviving so much. They made us superheros (against our ego-wills of course). No reason to feel ashamed and cover it up just because 'society' labels our pouches 'ugly'. It is a travesty how our Western Cultures in general can be so narrow minded to NOT accept the fact that everyone is different and health devices that some people must wear (prosthetics, oxygen tanks, back braces, wheelchairs, etc.) is just a part of who we are now. My sisters are so immature that they call me a 'freak' because of it. No they're not 12, although you'd think so. These are grown 50+ aged women; my siblings. Next time someone even looks at us 'funny', think of all the insecurities they might have within themselves. Instead of us reacting by feeling 'different' due to their reactions, have pity on them that they lack the emotional maturity and compassion that keep them in their superficial, insecure little worlds. Thank you for letting me state my point of view. Even though I mentioned my 2-peice swim suit design in another forum that hides the bulge for women, I don't think the bulge is that much of an issue for men, in my opinion.