Hi, new here kind of..I never had the strength mentally to speak openly about my issues as they are somewhat out of the norm To give a short explanaition. I have an ileostomy and have had it since October 2018. The reason for it is due to something wrong with my pelvic floor and/or nerves. I suffer painful erections and if I do ejaculate the tension is unbearable. Even laying down flat cause massive pains on my left flank. So far there has been no real answer on what is wrong due to lacl of knowledge in my area as well as being reduced to public medcial assistance. I recently have been trying to date as well as find answers and potential help for this.
Many women I have dated after have basically never returned calls or anything. Some have even went on to post about me on social media and poke fun at my issue. My ex fiance walked out because she felt I was cheating when I was in fact just fearing the pain sex would cause. Anyone have advice on what to do or if they have similar health issues.
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