Today, 9 years ago, I was in the operating room getting my new life-saving friend. I was too sick to be scared and too weak to care. Though, as any new ostomy, there were tough times. But with sheer determination and a will to get my life back from having ulcerative colitis, it has been a road to accomplishments. Mostly, being able now to enjoy playing with my grandchildren and watching them grow. Having my wife not worrying so much about me not being well, though she still worries but it's a given. Haven't looked back since.
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Why Join MeetAnOstoMate?
First off, this is a pretty cool site with 35,000 members who truly understand you.
It's not all about ostomy. We talk about everything.
Many come here for advice or to give advice, others have found good friends, and some have even found love. Most importantly, people here are honest and genuinely care.
🛑 Privacy is very important - we have many features that are only visible to members, ensuring a safe and secure environment for you to share and connect.
Create an account and you will be amazed by the warmth of this community.
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Are you worried about your ostomy's impact on your sex life? The good news is that it may not have any impact at all.
Read our intimacy tips.
Read our intimacy tips.
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If you're expecting a child, it's an exciting time for you and your family. And there's no reason why having a stoma should negatively affect your pregnancy.
Learn about what to expect during pregnancy.
Learn about what to expect during pregnancy.