This topic is about a 56-year-old carpenter who has been living with an ostomy during the Covid period and is finding it difficult to adjust. The ostomy has made it impossible for them to wear a tool belt, which has affected their ability to work in carpentry, a job they love. Without health insurance, they have turned to YouTube for guidance on managing their ostomy. Despite the support from family and animals, they feel frustrated and hopeless, especially when medical staff suggest they should just be grateful to be alive.

Here are some pieces of advice and insights that might help:

1. Many tradespeople have successfully continued working with an ostomy for years. With the right information, practice, and routine, it is possible to keep working in physically demanding jobs.

2. Focus on what you can control, like your reaction and adaptability. If returning to the same carpentry tasks is not possible, consider exploring related jobs or modified roles that use your skills without needing a heavy tool belt.

3. If you have specific stoma-related issues, such as leaks, appliance fit, skin problems, or clothing adaptations, ask the community for advice. They can offer targeted solutions.

4. Look at success stories from other ostomates. Seeing photos of high-quality carpentry by someone with an ostomy or hearing about people traveling, hiking, working in busy hospital wards, and even competing as elite athletes can provide practical ideas and motivation.

5. It's normal to feel shock, anger, and ask "why me?" at first. Over time, many people regain control and often become more active than before their surgery.

6. Emotional support is important. Stay connected with people who understand, breathe through the tough moments, and remember that progress usually comes gradually.

7. The community offers prayers, positive vibes, and encouragement to keep posting and sharing. Mutual support can help ease both the psychological and practical challenges of living with a stoma.