This topic is about someone who was considering reversing their ileostomy after having it for two years. They had an appointment set up to start the process but faced a lot of stress trying to get the necessary medical records from a cardiologist. After dealing with long waits and unanswered calls, they took it as a sign that maybe going through with the surgery wasn't the best idea. They decided that the risks and uncertainties of the surgery weren't worth it, especially since they were already feeling healthy and at peace. So, they canceled the appointment and chose to keep their ileostomy unless a medical emergency in the future requires a change.

Here are some helpful insights and advice shared by others:

1. Many people supported the decision, pointing out that if your quality of life is already good, there's no need to take on the risks and potential complications of surgery.

2. Some who were offered reversals themselves but decided against it mentioned that their research on the outcomes of such surgeries led them to the conclusion that if everything is working well, there's no need to change it.

3. Long-term ileostomy users shared their experiences of living active and fulfilling lives with their stomas, which can be reassuring for anyone considering keeping theirs.

4. One person mentioned that due to severe damage from ulcerative colitis, reversal wasn't an option for them. They found that avoiding further changes to their body helped keep later issues manageable, supporting the idea that sometimes less change can lead to a better life.

5. The general advice is that while the option for reversal can remain open for the future, there's no rush to make a decision if your current health and lifestyle are satisfactory.