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Oct 14, 2022

Ostomy Memories of an XKE

This story is about a young man who, at the age of 21, found himself in the hospital for an extended period, ultimately undergoing ostomy surgery. During his stay, he formed a connection with a social worker who promised him a ride in her stunning golden Jaguar XKE once he recovered. Despite the odds, he did get better and returned to the hospital to thank everyone, including the social worker. However, when he reminded her of the promised ride, she awkwardly withdrew the offer, leaving him feeling disappointed. To this day, he has never had the chance to ride in a Jaguar.

Here are some thoughts and advice inspired by this tale:

1. It's quite common to develop emotional attachments to caregivers during a hospital stay. Some people refer to this as "Nightingale syndrome," "Stockholm syndrome," or even jokingly as "FMBB (Fix My Butt Bandage) syndrome."

2. Nurses sometimes enjoy spending time with easy-going patients as a way to take a break from more demanding ones. This is shared as a lighthearted nursing "tip."

3. Personal stories from others highlight how the warmth and kindness of nurses can make a difficult hospital stay more bearable. However, it's important to keep expectations realistic.

4. Not every caregiver or social worker will follow through on promises, and feeling let down can leave a lasting emotional impact. This is illustrated by a poem shared about broken trust.

5. For car enthusiasts, the Jaguar E-Type/XKE is admired for its beauty as a classic car. However, some prefer the performance and reliability of other cars, like the Subaru WRX.
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