Topic Explanation
The discussion in the forum revolves around the challenges faced by individuals with ostomies when trying to maintain intimacy due to the physical presence and complications of an ostomy bag. The original poster, Mart, expresses difficulty with the bag interfering during intimate moments and also mentions having a large belly due to a hormone imbalance related to a tumor. Mart is seeking advice on how to manage the ostomy bag during intimate activities.

Advice and Helpful Insights
1. Stoma Cap and Meal Timing:
- Consider using a stoma cap, which is smaller and less intrusive than a regular ostomy bag, especially during intimate moments. It's also helpful to plan meals to ensure the stoma is less active during these times.

2. Securing the Bag:
- Fold the ostomy bag and secure it with tape or tuck it into a flap of fabric to prevent it from moving around.
- Use a belt or wrap specifically designed for ostomy bags to keep it secure and out of the way during intimate activities.

3. Specialized Clothing and Accessories:
- Explore websites like ostomysecrets.com and stealthbelt.com for accessories such as wraps and belts that help conceal and secure the ostomy bag.
- Consider using tube tops or belly bands, which can be effective for both men and women in holding the ostomy bag firmly against the body.

4. Diet and Hydration Management:
- Limiting intake of food and drink several hours before intimate moments can reduce stoma output, making management easier.

5. Ostomy Bag Management During Water Activities:
- For activities like swimming, position the ostomy bag sideways and consider using a two-piece system where the bag can be removed, leaving only the wafer during the activity.
- Ensure the ostomy bag is well-sealed and consider using products from brands like Hollister or Coloplast, which are known for their reliability during water exposure.

6. Post-Water Activity Care:
- After showering or swimming, dry the wafer thoroughly before reattaching the bag. Some find using a hairdryer on a cool setting helps in drying the wafer quickly.
- If experiencing issues with the ostomy bag leaking after getting wet, consider requesting samples from different manufacturers to find the most suitable product that provides a reliable seal.