This topic is about adjusting to life with an ostomy after experiencing significant life changes and health challenges. The person sharing their story has gone through a lot, including family illnesses, losses, and their own health issues, which led to the removal of their colon. While they are thankful to be free of cancer, living with an ostomy, which involves collecting waste in a pouch attached to the abdomen, feels both strange and difficult.

Here are some pieces of advice and insights shared by others:

1. Dark clouds pass: Many people remind us that tough times are temporary. Eventually, things will get better, and the good times might feel even more special because of the tough times you've been through.

2. Focus on positives: It's helpful to look for the "rainbows" in life and practice gratitude, especially for being alive. This can help balance the emotional challenges of dealing with loss and chronic illness.

3. Community support: You're not alone in this journey. There is a supportive online community of fellow ostomates who are ready to offer understanding and help whenever you need it.