This topic is about someone who is preparing for a temporary loop ileostomy reversal after having a Low Anterior Resection (LAR) surgery. They have been living with the ileostomy for nearly five months and are now just 12 days away from the reversal surgery. They are currently in a good place health-wise, with no evidence of disease. The person shares how much they have benefited from being part of an online community called "Man Up To Cancer: The Howling Place," which is a supportive group for male cancer patients and survivors. They even attended an annual retreat organized by the group, which was crucial for their emotional support and recovery.

Here are some pieces of advice and insights shared in the discussion:

1. The person encourages others, especially those who have been through similar experiences, to join the "Man Up To Cancer: The Howling Place" group for support.

2. A long-term survivor, who has been living with stage-4 cancer for 40 years, emphasizes the importance of perseverance and encourages everyone to "never give up."

3. Another member, who is also preparing for their own ileostomy reversal in 22 days after losing their entire colon, shares their experience and offers solidarity and well-wishes.

4. Many members of the community send prayers, positive thoughts, and encouragement, urging the person to stay strong and keep everyone updated on their progress.