Topic Explanation
The discussion revolves around a forum member who had their surgery postponed due to ongoing flu symptoms and the exploration of non-surgical options. The member shared their experience of preparing for surgery, consulting with medical professionals, and ultimately deciding to delay the procedure. They highlighted the importance of mental health support due to the trauma and anxiety they have been experiencing.

Advice and Insights

- Mental Health Support:
- Consider anti-anxiety medications in addition to counseling. Cymbalta is mentioned as an option that does not require weaning off.
- Recognize the importance of mental health and seek counseling, especially when experiencing suicidal thoughts, anxiety, and depression.
- Consulting a psychiatrist might help in finding an effective antidepressant.

- Non-Surgical Options:
- Always explore non-surgical options first if they are available and viable.
- Healing without surgery is a positive outcome if it can be achieved.

- Medical Team and Decision Making:
- Having a supportive and understanding medical team is crucial. It is important that they listen to both physical and emotional concerns.
- Making a decision to postpone surgery can be a sound and sensible choice, especially when not in the right mental and emotional state for surgery.
- It is important to feel confident and happy with the decision made regarding one's health.

- Personal Experiences and Encouragement:
- Some members shared their personal experiences with similar decisions and the importance of mental health support.
- Encouragement to stay positive and take the necessary time to heal both physically and mentally.
- Acknowledgment of the courage it takes to make such decisions and the importance of listening to one's own needs and readiness.