This topic is about the idea that sharing photos of your stoma is entirely optional and not a measure of authenticity within the community. It's important to feel comfortable and respected, regardless of whether you choose to share such personal images. Here are some helpful points to consider:

1. There is no requirement to post stoma photos. Your profile picture can be anything you like, such as a picture of your pet, a hobby, or even nothing at all.

2. Most people in the community are trusting and will take you at your word. Trust is generally given unless there is a reason to doubt someone's behavior.

3. Privacy is a valid concern. Some people choose not to post medical images because they have experienced them being reused without permission.

4. If someone demands proof or behaves disrespectfully, it's best to ignore them or report their behavior to the site moderators. Often, such individuals are just seeking attention.

5. Share only what you feel comfortable with. You have control over how much personal information you choose to reveal.