This topic is about someone looking for companionship and possibly a romantic relationship with someone who understands what it's like to live with an ostomy. They feel that connecting with someone who shares this experience might help avoid any awkwardness.

Here are some helpful pieces of advice and insights:

- Keep an open mind and stay hopeful; sometimes, meaningful relationships come along when you least expect them.

- When interacting online, take things slowly and always prioritize your safety:
1. Verify the identity of the person you are talking to by checking platforms like Google, LinkedIn, or Facebook before meeting them in person.
2. Never send money or share sensitive personal information. If someone asks for money, it could be a scam.

- Consider in-person options that offer some safety measures:
1. Join church-affiliated or local singles groups that conduct background checks. Be aware that there might be membership fees.
2. Look into local United Ostomy Associations of America (UOAA) support groups. They often organize social events like group dinners, which can make dating with an ostomy less stressful.

- There are success stories from people who have found partners, both with and without ostomies, who accept their ileostomy or colostomy without any issues. This shows that supportive partners are out there.

- Many people share common worries such as fear of rejection, pouch issues during intimacy, and stigma. Open communication and taking things slowly in relationships can help address these concerns.

- Intimacy doesn't have to be all about intercourse, especially as people get older. Partners can explore other ways to be close if physical concerns come up.