The topic at hand is about showering with an ostomy and whether to keep the ostomy bag on or take it off during the shower. This is a common concern for many people with an ostomy, as they want to ensure their appliance stays secure and their skin remains healthy. Here are some insights and advice shared by others who have faced similar questions:

1. Adhesive and Water Resistance
- Most ostomy wafers from brands like Hollister and Coloplast are designed to be waterproof. Activities like showering, swimming, or using a hot tub generally do not affect their adhesion.
- A humorous point made is that if water could easily loosen the adhesive, there wouldn't be a need for adhesive-remover wipes.

2. Typical Shower Schedules
- Many people shower daily with their pouch on and only remove it on planned change days, which is usually once or twice a week.
- Some choose to have a "bag-less" shower weekly or bi-weekly to give their skin some air time, accepting the small risk of output during the shower.

3. Drying Methods
- After showering, you can pat the area dry with a towel or paper towel. Some also use a quick blast from a hair dryer.
- Interestingly, warm water can help the wafer bond more firmly, similar to warming it with your hand after applying.

4. Extra Security Options
- For added security, you can use flange extenders or "C strips" to reinforce the edges.
- Barrier rings under the wafer and Torbot Ostomy Bonding Cement can provide a stronger seal if needed.

5. Covers and Accessories
- Some people use shower covers like the Stomagoggle or modified hospital aprons to keep the pouch drier, though opinions on their necessity vary.
- Saran Wrap was suggested by a nurse, but many found it ineffective.

6. Change-Day Tips
- To minimize output during a bag-off shower, some stop eating the evening before a change.
- Removing the appliance before showering and then applying a fresh wafer afterward allows the skin to breathe.

7. Skin and Sensitivity Notes
- Those with adhesive allergies or who develop rashes from a wet wafer might prefer sponge baths or less frequent showers, removing the bag each time.
- The VeganOstomy website offers DIY apron ideas and other shower solutions.

8. Product Mentions
- Products like Hollister's 1-piece and 2-piece systems, Coloplast appliances, and Torbot bonding cement are mentioned for their effectiveness.

9. Bottom Line Shared by Most Members
- There is no single "right way" to shower with an ostomy. Many find that showering with the appliance on works well without any loosening. However, experimenting with an occasional bag-off shower can be beneficial for comfort and skin care.