This topic is about finding confidence and acceptance in dating while living with a temporary ileostomy. The person sharing their experience was initially worried that having an ileostomy might hinder future relationships, especially after a recent separation. However, they found that being open about it with two different dates led to positive outcomes. One of these dates turned into a promising relationship, with the partner being understanding and supportive. Here are some helpful insights and advice from their experience:

1. Confidence is key. When you feel good about yourself and your ostomy, it encourages others to accept it too.

2. Finding just one partner who accepts you can help ease fears of rejection. If someone can't handle your ostomy, they might not be the right match for you.

3. People are generally more open-minded these days. Many are familiar with others who have medical devices, so expect acceptance rather than rejection.

4. Live life to the fullest. Having an ostomy doesn't stop people from enjoying long, happy relationships.

5. Be open about your situation early on, once you feel a basic level of trust. Many have found success by sharing within the first few weeks of dating.

6. Remember, your stoma is a part of you and keeps you healthy. A caring partner will understand and appreciate this.

7. If you're nervous about dating again, whether you're part of the LGBTQ+ community or not, take encouragement from positive experiences. Start slowly, be honest, and always value yourself.