This topic is about exploring the possibilities of dating and intimacy for ostomates, particularly those who are fit and living in London. It touches on the challenges and considerations of disclosing an ostomy bag in romantic situations.

Here are some helpful insights and advice shared by others:

1. Many people use this forum to connect with others for friendships, relationships, and even intimacy. It's perfectly fine to use it for dating purposes.

2. Being open and honest about having an ostomy is generally seen as a positive approach. It can help in finding partners who are understanding and accepting.

3. There is a discussion about sharing "sexy" photos that show ostomies and scars. While this can boost confidence, it's important to remember that not everyone may be comfortable with it. However, specialized communities like this forum can offer a more supportive and appreciative environment for such exchanges.