Is this a suitable site to look for dates and possible intimacy in London with fellow fit ostomists? It is hard to pluck up the courage to date (extra marital - don't judge!) knowing that there is the bag issue to come to the fore at some point.
Londonw9
May 09, 2014 3:01 am
funnygurl
May 14, 2014 3:24 am
I have already been to London many times and seen the Crown Jewels. I wouldn't want to risk an anti-climax :)
Zywie
May 14, 2014 4:01 am
It's a suitable site. There are people from all over the world here looking for something. At least you are honest! Good luck.
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Posted by: Primeboy
Hi Mike and all. I am not sure how panoramic my perspective really is as my peripheral vision shrinks with each passing year. I can tell you that when I came to this website six years ago I was truly ;impressed by the positive attitudes of so many members, especially the younger folks who refused to let their ostomies define who they were or what they would become. I also came to appreciate that having an ostomy is not the same thing as having a disease. Pardon ;my pun now, but ostomies and cancer don't belong in the same bag. One is a solution, the other is a problem. Celebrating National Ostomy Day ;is also well outside my comfort zone. That's like celebrating National Wheel Chair Day. Come on!
I think there is a ;need for improved ;public awareness of ostomies, but I am not sure how that's best done. There ;remains ;some social stigma attached to our situation, and it's acutely felt among our young. We need to get out of the dark ages on this issue, but not by going 'in your face' to everyone else. I think Bill and NDY are 'spot-on' when it comes to telegraphing the right message to friends and family. People will know how to react when they ;see ;how we accept the cards we were dealt. I also appreciate the contribution some people here are making to this effort through their publications.
On a personal note, my son has been suffering from ulcerative colitis for years just like I did. I am very concerned because people with UC are at a higher risk for colon cancer. Years ago my GI told me to get annual colonoscopies to be on the safe side. I am glad I did because he eventually found pre-cancerous cells which led to several surgeries and my becoming an ostomate. Since then I have always ;conveyed a positive attitude to ;my son about wearing a bag because it has kept me alive to enjoy many more years with my loved ones. I think he got the message. We both go to the same gastroenterologist in NYC and get scoped on the same day. Father and Son moments!
Someone once wrote that our children are the letters we write to the future.
PB
Gear Jammer
Mar 24, 2015 6:10 pm
Has anyone else wanted to be able to send sexy pics (clothed or otherwise) but not had the nerve to do it somewhere? We should be able to swap pics with ostomies in proud view, just like anyone else!
I would love to be able to show off my scars that kept me alive... but not everyone is so understanding...
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