This topic is about the recovery process after having the rectum removed and the anus sewn closed. It covers experiences with pain management and healing, as well as insights from others who have gone through similar surgeries. Here are some helpful points to consider:

- The surgery might be necessary due to various reasons such as cancer, severe diverticulitis, or irreparable nerve damage that causes uncontrollable drainage.

- For managing pain and comfort while sitting or lying down, it's beneficial to use specialized cushions wherever you need to sit, like in the car or at a desk. An inflatable Waffle mattress or similar pressure-relief overlay can help you rest on your back more comfortably.

- Pain relief often involves strong opioids like Endone or oxycodone, which can cause side effects such as constipation and loss of appetite. Some people find that medical cannabis helps stimulate appetite, reduce pain, and ease the transition off opioids.

- Emotionally, it's normal to experience fear, resistance, and concerns about body image. Sharing your experiences and using humor can be helpful. Embrace your new life and seek out supportive healthcare professionals. If you're not comfortable with your doctor, consider finding someone else.

- After surgery, you might be advised not to sit for about two weeks, and when you do, use cushions and limit the time. Healing can be slow, but many people report steady improvement and eventually feel like they almost forget about the surgery.

- If your stoma is permanent, the anus is usually sewn closed. If a reversal is planned, it might be left open.