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Fred383
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Hi. Acquired a colostomy 2 years ago. Figured out how to have intimate relations by a) taking anti diarrhea pills for the anticipated time of the activity, b) wearing a simple 'weight belt' that concels the bag [update ostomy secrets has wraps and swim belts specifically made for us to conceil and be comfortable with wearing. Different colors too](if folded) and c) If the date is a one nighter, I just say it covers a wound and nasty scar tissue and leave it at that. With somebody more serious, I still don't tell them in advance. Wound is enough. After a time when I feel comfortable with the relationship will I explain what the wound is and how I got it.
