I recently had an ileostomy in February. Unfortunately, I had a doctor who completely misled myself and my mother into believing that I wouldn't need a bag and he could reconnect my colon. He completely betrayed my trust and needless to say, I won't be going back to him again. I've only recently decided to find a new gastroenterologist since I was so betrayed by my previous doctor. Anyways, I was wondering if anyone has had reversals simply because they wanted one. I know there are a lot of circumstances in which ileostomies are temporary, but I'd like to know if anyone has had one simply because they asked for one. My doctor did not remove my anus or rectum or whatever the proper term is, so I know that technically it's still possible to reverse my ileostomy, but I know there needs to be other conditions met before a doctor would consider reversing it. Any info or tips would be greatly appreciated!!!

Reversing Ileostomy - Personal Choice Or Medical Necessity?

beanie

Dec 22, 2011 8:25 pm

What has happened, did you get a reversal? All these posts just seem to end....

Past Member

Dec 22, 2011 8:53 pm

Beanie,

I had not read these forum posts before today - much goes back to Oct 2010. I am so glad you asked what happened. I would love to have updates for all of these people.

My emergency surgery was Aug 2010. No complications before or since. I decided almost immediately I would not seek a reversal. There are many reasons. My ostomy is just a non-issue in my life. Some other things are issues but have no options.

I see how troubled many people are with their ostomies and am interested in each of these people that have posted. I would love to hear how they are doing now and also would like to hear from others with similar issues.

Again, thanks for asking.

Carol

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Aug 06, 2013 2:14 am

Get an opinion from a major medical facility like the Mayo Clinic or similar high-profile facility. You can often make appointments online and you don't need referrals most of the time, only a copy of your medical records.

Past Member

Jun 02, 2016 1:56 pm

Had reversal. Didn't work. Complete obstruction of colon. Will have bag rest of life. Have no problem with that. Good luck. Most people have no problem with reversal.

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Jan 01, 2022 8:07 am

So I was told the same thing and I feel every bit of what you're going through, betrayal.

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