Hi, I got married at 20, to a man who also had an ostomy, so between us, we had two pouches.. :>)) In missionary position, that meant one on the right and one on the left.... We were both very accepting and learned what worked best for us.. The pouches never really got in the way, even when we "experimented" with other positions.. When I divorced 24 years later, I had to face the dating scene and possible sexual encounters with new partner(s). Over the last 20+ years, I've had long-term/sexual relationships with a few guys (one at a time) and as long as they were accepting, having the ostomy and the pouch didn't seem to matter and never got in the way.. I never did try a wrap, but I have emptied and then folded the pouch "up" and taped it to my skin. That really worked well.. I also took a scissor to a pair of stretchy/lace panties (and cut a slit in the crotch). These were the days before "ostomy" supplies had "matured".. These days, do what others suggested and find products that work for you, or improvise... Good luck, Marsha