Hi , I am happy to say that I have actually indulged . I had the experience twice thanks to the love of my life , Kitty . We both had massages at a nice little place in Santa Cruz . I was pretty scared about the whole thing as I know first hand and lots of times how bad a leak can be . We both changed bags , nice new fresh ones taped all around the edges and a strip on the borrom to make sure the velcro did not come loose ( has done in the past ) . It was wonderful to get the massage . After that we met and went to the hot tub together . I was afraid the hot water would cause disaster but not a single problem . Of course in the hot tub all we wore was our Baggies !! I won't go into it but suffice to say we both had a Lot of Fun in the bubbles ,no , did not "contaminate " the water ...LOL . We save the "contamination " for the shower which was in the hot tub room . It was so nice not to be worried about the other person and how she would feel about getting naked with me . We all have that little bit of bulge around the Stoma area , other than that I'm quite slim . Kitty was always trying to fatten me up !! There was a small kind of Tropical garden just outside the window which added to the nice atmosphere . When the other person also has an Ostomy it is such a pressure-free atmosphere and you can enjoy holding your partner close with nothing between you but your mutual plastic Baggage . Eliminating the fear and the nervous tension is sooooo damn liberating .
The Sauna was equally trouble free .
Had No problems at all . I explained to the Masseuse that I had the bag and she was so nice and sensitive about it I was totally at ease . We had many more visits planned but those plans were never to be fulfilled , just so happy we did it when we did .
Go for it , especially if your Partner also has a Baggie .
Love and Hugs to all the gang out there XX