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Hi Everyone, My name is David i am a 45 year old who is close to 5 weeks out from my illiostomy surgery and no matter how much i eat i cant gain any weight, ive actually lost 7 pounds or more since ive been home from the hospital. Has anyone else experienced this? My surgeon said i dont have very much small bowel there before my illiosomtomy and that i will suffer from absorbtion problems. I feel embaressed and very self consistiance about seeing anyone I know.

Axl
 

Hello David

I wouldn't be concerned I typically lose 30 pounds after our type of surgeries and have done it several times, can take 3 to 4 months easily for me to get back to normal weight. Your only 5 weeks in and your body is still having a stroke about the trauma it has been through and trying to learn it's new ways, for now just enjoy eating anything you please.

Axl

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Hah, "no matter how much I eat I can't gain any weight."  Enjoy it while you can.  I was exactly the same way following my ileostomy.  Once you gain some years, believe me, you'll gain some pounds.  Then you'll pine for the skinny days, or the fjords, if you're a Monty Python fan.  

 

Hey David,

It’ll take some time for your body to adjust, the small bowel needs time to learn how to do the job of the large intestine as well its normal job. You’re only five weeks post-op, it takes some months for your small bowel to figure it all out. For now, just enjoy being able to gorge on whatever you feel like eating. Maybe speak to your doctor about ensure drinks, they're a small prescription drink that contains a lot of calories. I personally really enjoyed the taste of them, but I know not everyone does. Another hot tip I learned is when you get things like milk and yoghurt, get the full fat version. If you get a reduced fat or zero fat version of a food or drink, buy the full fat, sugary version instead. That also really helped me in the beginning.

And just a side note - putting electrolyte sachets/tablets in a drink of water is a really good way to keep hydrated, I still do that to this day, to make sure I’m not dehydrating. I know a lot of people use a company called Liquid IV. I use tablets called O.R.S. There’s loads of different brands to choose from. 

 

It's normal in the early days, but as you say most of your small bowel has been removed that will have a big impact on your output I'm guessing that you have a high output stoma? if you do have a high output you will have problems gaining weight....are you on any meds or a combination of meds to slow stoma down, how many times a day does your bag need emptying? 

 

At five weeks your body is using all the fuel you give it just to heal. But once you’re six months out or so, if you still can’t rebuild, have your GP look for some other cause. In my case, it was my thyroid that had gone overactive, preventing any weight gain or further recovery. Hang in there; things will get better.

 

I have an ileostomy and it took me well over a year to start gaining some weight back.  
Enjoy eating whatever you want in the meantime and  - chew, chew, chew.  jb 

 

Hi David i,ve had an ilieo. for 30some years and have,nt been able to gain back any weight, but like others said you can eat all the foods you like and not worry about being overweight and like others said its early on your recovery have patience and enjoy the foods you like.

 

There are alot of high calorie powders on the market that you simply mix with water or preferably milk. You can take in 1000+ calories per drink. 

 


Axl wrote:

Hello David

I wouldn't be concerned I typically lose 30 pounds after our type of surgeries and have done it several times, can take 3 to 4 months easily for me to get back to normal weight. Your o...

Thank you Axl that is very helpful!

 


Ben38 wrote:

It's normal in the early days, but as you say most of your small bowel has been removed that will have a big impact on your output I'm guessing that you have a high output stoma? if you do have a h...

I have extremely high out put like 2 litres a day. I meet with surgeon tomorrow, they are going to up my Imodium dose to 25mg I think. I’m always hungry and always thirsty! I’m just hoping in time things will improve. It can be scary.

 


Axl wrote:

Hello David

I wouldn't be concerned I typically lose 30 pounds after our type of surgeries and have done it several times, can take 3 to 4 months easily for me to get back to normal weight. Your o...

Can’t gain weight and it’s been over 2 years and have lost between 35-40 lbs. Has anyone been able to gain weight and how did they do it?

 

Hi. I have the same problem. I have my ileistomy since 2017 and I cannot gain weight no matter what I eat or do. I did loose 10 lbs when I came out of the hospital and have never gain it back. I am lucky if I reach 105 lbs!! . Do not discourage. 

 

It could take months for your small bowel to be able to change and do more absorbing.  There are dietary supplements that could be easier to absorb than regular food.  Make sure you and your internist are monitoring your vitamin & protein levels.  B12 is the most common problem.

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