Iowa Retiree Finds Comfort and Support on Ostomy Forum

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Maryallison
Dec 13, 2009 7:47 pm
I am very happy to have found this site, where there is comfort and support to ostomates. We are in a special situation and in my case I do not know of a person who has an ostomy in my community.
I am 66 years old, mother to two grown sons and a retired teacher and caregiver. I taught young children and mentally and physically challenged adults.
I became ill in April this year when my colon perforated and it was at this time that I received my new BFF "the bag." I spent time in two hospitals and a nursing home to recover and now am able to take care of myself in all ways.
I love to get to know people on this site. I know I am one of the older members but am happy to chat to all ages.
I love gardening, reading, classical music, and needlework. I've never run a marathon and I doubt I will start training for one now. More "house mouse" than "party animal" but I love and enjoy people.
Maryallison
Past Member
Dec 15, 2009 2:44 pm

Hi Maryallison, maybe there is a support group in your area. There should be a visiting nurse service you can call for this information, or the surgeon's office should have some information about this. Good luck. It is nice to talk to people in person also.

Posted by: Karen & Stella
Fay,

I am one of those few people who still have a lot of output at night. However, I suffer from short gut syndrome after seven bowel surgeries that led to the loss of much of my small intestine as well as my large intestine from the initial bowel cancer surgery. It does get better over time as your system adjusts, but an ileostomy can be a challenging adjustment. It's important to connect with a good Enterostomal Nurse - ET nurses who can help you problem-solve over time. It's been five years since my initial surgery, and I had a great visit with a new ET nurse in December. He really helped me with the problem of high output at night. I had been getting up every 90-120 minutes to empty my high output bag because of filling. If I slept for three hours without emptying, I would have problems. My ET nurse helped my husband and me make a nighttime collection system using a Rubbermaid juice container with a handle and my old CPAP hose. This is connected to one of my two-piece high output bags and allows for continual drainage. It isn't pretty, but it has been a real lifesaver. I guess the real message I want to share is to stick with it, find a nurse who you can work with, and together you will find solutions to whatever challenges you face. This website is also an important support for me and others. There is nothing you will go through that others haven't already faced and figured out. There is so much wisdom here. Read the materials they've put together for newbies. There are a lot of great suggestions to use. I hope things get better quickly for you.
Karen
Past Member
Dec 15, 2009 2:44 pm

Hi Maryallison, maybe there is a support group in your area. There should be a visiting nurse service you can call for this info, or the surgeon's office should have some information about this. Good luck. It is nice to talk to people in person also.

Past Member
Mar 05, 2010 1:01 am

Hey, welcome to this. I'm very popular. I want to be friends. Check out my profile, Fennen.

loren4life
Apr 02, 2010 1:28 am

Mary,
We haven't chatted much, but I wanted to say hello from Iowa! Life can be a challenge until we figure out this new BFF. But life really is fun when we 'get to live' rather than deal with the issues prior to surgery.

Spring is here! Life is good! We should visit sometime.
Loren

 

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Past Member
Nov 26, 2012 6:34 pm

Hi Maryallison. Just wanted to say hello. I am 63 and living with an ileostomy since 1987. I was diagnosed with Crohn's and had a colostomy first, then a reversal which unfortunately did not go well. Now living with an ileostomy. Many bumps in the road adjusting but doing well now, except for a hernia between my hip and stoma which is considered inoperable due to other abdominal surgeries I have had and resulting adhesions and old colostomy site on the other side. This is quite a trial. I am blessed to have a very supportive family. Looking forward to hearing from you.