I've had my stoma for about ten years. It was done for Crohn's, which was worse than not being able to make it to the toilet, which was extremely embarrassing, and periods of pain. In the last 7 years, I've had three hernia operations, which were unsuccessful. Now my surgeon wants to move the stoma site to the other side of my tummy and try to repair the hernia once again. The hernia is very big and is noticeable under clothing; I just make a joke of it. Six months now, I just knew who the father was! Anyway, I was hoping someone is going through this or knows someone who is. I'm quite anxious and only have a month until surgery in June.
Any advice would be great. You support each other, which is great, and I'm always learning more about being an ostomate. rythamolove (Jeff) Many Thanks
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This site is a godsend. As a newbie (colostomy on Nov 8, '21), I look at it every day for a number of reasons. Reading what people are going through makes me grateful that my elective surgery because of a severe case of IBS-C is nothing compared to what they have been through and are still living with.
I don't have to go to the hospital for anything related to my ostomy. I feel sorry for those who do and am in awe of those who can use humor to describe their ordeal. I identify with those who express their fears. I especially identify with those who are depressed because I am clinically depressed and have general anxiety disorder. How ironic that having a colostomy eliminated some of the depression and anxiety that the IBS created. I've been widowed twice and I'm on match.com.
I immediately included my operation in my profile and am pleased to say it doesn't seem to make a difference.
And there is much humor on this site and it's one of the reasons I enjoy it so much.
I could name numerous things I've learned from reading people's comments/questions/answers.
After months following on a daily basis, my only negative comment is I don't like listing the most popular members.
It's not that I don't like these people; I do. It's that I think it elicits some "Facebook"-like banter or comments that are gratuitous.
I don't do any social media and think that its merits are overshadowed by too much negativity.
Meetanostomate is in no way negative. I just think the gallery of "popularity" detracts from what is an excellent website that deals with a serious issue that causes a myriad of emotions.
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