Intimacy Challenges with an Ostomy

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Beachboy
Jul 15, 2024 2:54 pm

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I don't like my wayward stoma. No one else seems to mind. So, I just let it go and not stress about it.

Past Member
Jul 17, 2024 4:53 pm

My big question is, how to keep the bag from flopping around during the ride? Tie it down with a scarf or something?

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After I got my ostomy I found this site and got a lifetime membership. I have had so much help from the core members, things that even the wound care nurses didn't know. If you haven't been through this journey you don't know - only the people that have experienced this first hand truly understand what your going through. The support is enormously helpful getting through this. Afterwards when you start to learn how to deal with this new normal you can begin to help others.  ...mtnman. 

warrior
Jul 17, 2024 6:29 pm

Hi, if you have read the previous messages above, you will see what people suggest.

Some good advice.

Tube tops, stealth belts. Crazy glue... just kidding. 😁

Beachboy
Jul 17, 2024 6:38 pm

Crazy glue... that's... um... crazy.

Past Member
Jul 17, 2024 10:19 pm

Thank you. I thought I had read all the comments, but it turned out there were more after an ad that I didn't scroll far enough past.

 

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warrior
Jul 18, 2024 2:41 am

No worries. I have always said this web design is a bit confusing. You learn more as you read and respond. It's a good bunch of people. Welcome.

warrior
Jul 18, 2024 2:43 am

Says the man, with a crazy feline. You know crazy, don't you?

anneboyles12
Jul 18, 2024 1:19 pm

Yes, I use a prettier hernia belt.

Beachboy
Jul 18, 2024 4:00 pm

Too true... too true.

My cat says I'm too lazy to be crazy.

Disagreeing, I'd say her outlook is too hazy.

Into the wall she darts,

To avoid eye-watering stoma farts.

warrior
Jul 18, 2024 4:05 pm

Your cat speaks? Therefore, you are the cat whisperer. 😆

Hisbiscus
Jul 25, 2024 4:23 am

Put on a maternity band over your bag and have at it! Ostomy Secrets sells some sexy wraps made of lace. Don't worry about it; if it doesn't bother him, then just go with it like it's not even there. Focus on the sex, not the ostomy.

Mine has made noise and even pooped, but I have my wrap on. Just tune it out.