Reply to Smnard
I always rip the ring into a ribbon as described and stretch it a little. You want that barrier to be hugging the stoma gently. Any skin between the barrier and the stoma can otherwise get heavily irritated by output. I tried to stretch the barrier ring and not rip it because that's how I was trained by ostomy nurses. However, ostomates online gave me this tip a few months post-op and it changed everything!!! Sometimes you need someone else who lives with a bag to help!
I was going to comment and say that a new stoma is super loud! It chills out. When gas comes through, it really tickles my stomach and while it's loud, I can't contain the giggle or smiles. The first month or so, I remember thinking, is there a noise cancellation device for this thing!? It gets better.
My stoma loves to be loud when I eat. I've adapted to playing background music so it's less obvious. In public, at times it may make a strange noise, but no one around us knows that noise. It's more a mental adjustment to this. A trade-off for me of being in the toilet 24/7, and I'll take the awkward moments for that blessing.
Feel free to reach out anytime! I do advocacy stuff online right now while I'm dealing with other health issues. So I'm always honored to help anyone, especially in the early days with a stoma.
One thing I can say is I was terrified doing my bag change. By 6 months of ostomy life, I got it down. If the stoma moves, prepare for it to spit. You will find some products are perfect for you and then they aren't anymore. That's okay and normal. We all have our own perfect. So my system right now is Coloplast and Hollister products because my sensitive skin reacted to everything else. As our bodies change, our products can too. All the companies are amazing at sending samples. I encourage everyone to reach out to companies with complaints so that they can improve their products. Having the support of others who have ostomy bags of any kind is a tremendous help! So you're doing excellent right now!!! I'm here for you!!!