

dawneagle wrote: |
baggette, I agree. Sexual relations (with others or alone) should be for pleasure not painful ... never pain (for me). It is one of our joys in life. I remember a punch line from a joke - "if it hurts don't do it". I don't remember the joke but the punch line is a no brainer for me. I am not up for for more pain - 'no way - no how'. I never understood "no pain - no gain" ... I will forgo the gain if I have to have the pain. Thanks for saying it and saying it so clearly. |