I will be having my colon, rectum, and anus removed soon. I am scared but excited to get it over with. I know it will be tough using the bag, but I will learn through trial and error. I do have a sense of humor. I have even been trying to think of a good name for my stoma. I have had ulcerative colitis for 7 years, and it was time to do something. Pills were not working, and I had no hope left. I sure do not want colon cancer either. I think I will be a lot happier with this surgery, and I can finally get some of my life back. Handling a bag is not easy, so I need to know what you did to stay strong. I am not the type to stay home and hide from people after surgery like this. It is not good to isolate yourself from people. When I do get better, I am looking for work, which is kinda exciting. Please give me some good and positive advice!!
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