Hi friends, I have a question about my wafer. Lately, I have been noticing a change when I change the wafer. The inside of the wafer next to my skin is turning white and puffing up. I usually change my wafer every 3-4 days and I only use a barrier wipe, no eakins or brave seal or paste. My question to you is... is the wafer supposed to puff up and change color from beige to white over time? And if it does, is it doing its job or breaking down and ready to leak? So far, so good... no leaks, but I am just concerned. I contacted Coloplast the other day to talk about my concern, but of course, their answer did not address my question and the representative was not an ostomate, so I was left wondering if everything was fine. In addition, I check my wafer when I change it to see if I have any effluent under the seal, and currently, I do not see anything. Thank you very much for any input. It is very much appreciated. Have a great evening! Talk to you soon. Sincerely, LH

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