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Fruits and veggies

Posted by Morning glory , on Fri Aug 03, 2018 12:08 pm

 I had my my surgery 37 years ago; I was told that I would be able to eat anything. I have a huge problem eating any fruits and veggies. I mainly eat carbs and meat. I can eat okra squash tomatoes. This makes no sense since they all have seeds. I have an ileostomy.  Any thoughts as to why?

Reply by iMacG5, on Sat Aug 04, 2018 6:29 pm

Hey Morning glory, what problem do you have eating fruits and veggies?  Given some specifics there will probably be folks with similar experiences who might help.



Reply by Morning glory , on Fri Aug 10, 2018 6:43 pm

My problem is after eating fruits and veggies is leaking. I start out diarrhea,. I then will have a huge cramping sensation,then my bowel will be hard . This causes my pouch to loosen. The diarrhea then comes full force and gets on my clothes at times.

Reply by iMacG5, on Sat Aug 11, 2018 3:13 pm

Hi Morning glory.  I just don't know enough about this to offer advice to you.  I'm also somewhat confused.  Was the leakage and "D" always a problem for you?  I don't know what the seeds have to do with your situation since your colon isn't involved.  I won't stop researching and, hopefully, we'll get some good advice.



Reply by Morning glory , on Mon Aug 13, 2018 10:04 am

Yes it has always been a problem for me. I know others with ileostomy and they seem to be able to eat anything they want.   Thanks for replying.

Reply by Immarsh, on Mon Aug 13, 2018 11:15 am
Hi Morning Glory, It's good that y ou joined as a lifetime member. Staying connected means you always have the option to connect with others. Re, issues with fruits and veggies...
The same thing happens to me, but ironically, not all the time. Some fruits / veggie fibers have the tendency to " ball up. I find that especially with peaches, and and asparagus.. and some others with " long" fibers. I don't eat much " raw" stuff anymore... Just some lettuce, finely chopped and tomato, without the skin. Onions...I chop up. I'm " afraid of mushrooms", as they come out the way they went they re finely chopped and overcooked...Raw celery, and carrots are out . I use to be able to eat pop corn, and corn on the cob....but don't do it often... Try what I do.. start the meal with bread/ meat....and have a small tast/ serving of a vegie or fruit...mid meal. Sometimes, it triggers the runs....with all liquid coming out...within the hour...while the fiber can stay " in" for days. But I don't always get pain. I cook veggies very well, and sometimes even pure broccoli & cauliflower...Digestion is so individual..

Next time you write....tell more about yourself. I usually pass through North Carolina, en route to SC or Fla. But I've been to Raliegh several times. Where is Thomasville. What did you do when you worked. I was a preschool disability teacher, and I really miss it. I'm hoping I can find some part time work this year... That's a nice pic you posted.. Is it your daughter, or grand daughter? Hope to hear from you. Marsha
Reply by ronjeff, on Tue Aug 14, 2018 4:33 pm

Fruits and veggies are problem for me also.  I had colostomy 3 years ago.  I eat mostly meat and carbs and starch.

Reply by bigal1579, on Tue Aug 14, 2018 5:16 pm

I'm one of those people who can pretty much eat anything, so take what I say with a grain of salt.

I find that although foods tend to behave a certain way, there is also a fair amount of variability.

I also at times experience a rather hard stool (relatively speaking) followed by more watery output.  Sometimes it seems like a bodily reaction to make sure the hard stool keeps moving and doesn't get stuck.

I have several suggestions:

1) Mix foods, both on your plate and in your mouth.  Sometimes it feels like varied foods in my mouth at the same time generate different mouth digestive enzymes to break things down more.

2) Chew for a long time (this makes #1 more likely to occur)

3) Try troublesome food in moderation, and keep trying over time.  Right after surgery popcorn was difficult.  Now I make sure to eat it in moderation and it's fine.  Try something now that you have avoided because you had a problem.  That could have been 5 years ago and a little bit now might go well.

4) Try counter intuitive foods.  Pre surgery I always worried about cherries, sauerkraut (they don't sound that great together in the same sentence, do they?) and other things causing loose bowel movements.  Now they seem to be the opposite.

5) More smaller meals so your digestive tract has less to deal with at once.

Reply by Morning glory , on Tue Aug 14, 2018 6:01 pm

Thank you so much bigal1579. Think I will wait awhile on the cherries and  I have gotten some good advice. Thanks to all that have replied. I sure am happy that I stumbled onto this website.

Morning glory

Reply by dadnabbit, on Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:24 pm

Morning Glory,

I too am one of those who eats whatever I want.  The reactions vary, loose or thick output, depending on just what I eat.  Seeds and nuts cause me no problems but for many they can cause a blockage issue because of adhesions and scar tissue which cause small passage ways.  Certain items have thick skins, like apples and potatoes, and these also can cause blockage problems. Chewing REALLY WELL is the best way to enjoy those types of items, and really should become a healthy habit anyway as chewing really well will help avoid any blockage issues. Some fruits for me will loosen the stool (like berries, peaches, nectarines, melons etc.) and then items like pineapple (very fibrous so difficult passing) or bananas tend to thicken the stool. Broccoli and cabbage will cause gas and the pouch will need to be burped frequently while spinach and corn go through me quickly and mostly undigested.   I eat sweet potatoes frequently because they are loaded with vitamins, but they absolutely will thicken and slow down your output. Trial and experimentation is really the only way to discover how YOU will react to each different item.  But use caution and keep track to not overdue any one item until you really understand how YOUR system will handle them.  Good luck.


Reply by freedancer, on Wed Aug 15, 2018 12:23 am

What are squash tomatoes??  I had my redo in February.  A complete start over.  Now I can eat alot more things but I ate carrots the other day, frozen bagged ones with no skin and very well cooked. Unfortunately, New Maxine was not amused and partially blocked up for two days.  So even though I chewed them to a pulp, still couldn't eat them.  I can eat seedless watermelon and cantaloupe, also mush melon.  I really would like to try strawberries and blueberries, but am nervous about it. I haven't tried tomatoes at all, just tomato sauce.  It seems if the squash tomatoes had seeds that they would cause issues. However, if they are small and smooth, perhaps they just slide through.


Reply by pink3008, on Wed Aug 15, 2018 9:17 am

Hi Morning Glory, I have the same problem at times digesting certain foods. I have had my Ileostomy since 1994. I can tolerate cucumber seeds,but not rice, tomato skins, grapes. When I first had surgery I was able to have these foods with no problem. Just wanted you to know that you not alone with this.

Reply by Morning glory , on Wed Aug 15, 2018 9:53 am

Thanks for the support3008.It just goes to show you how different our bodies are. I can tolerate rice very well. I too have to peel off the skin of tomatoes.I am so happy to have others to talk to.

Morning glory

Reply by JudiA, on Wed Aug 15, 2018 10:38 am

I have trouble with RAW fruits and veggies - it isn't the seeds but the fiber!  Cooked I am usually OK, I eat apples raw - peeled and cored.  I go thru phases of things not wanting to pass.  I got my spout Dec.1989. Have had numerous revisions - and mesh - so this is an on-going thing - scar tissue issues and now a big gas problem - waking up nightly with a hot air ballon on my belly! Those charcoals filters don't work with an ileo! 

Reply by Morning glory , on Wed Aug 15, 2018 12:01 pm

Thanks JudiA,

Yes,the fiber is the biggest problem! I know what you mean about waking up with the balloon!Lol. Sometimes I just have to slide out th bed in hopes it doesn’t break.


Morning glory 

Reply by CuriousSoulAstray, on Thu Aug 16, 2018 7:02 pm

I find anything to do with milk will be watery and immediate, in my case. I am adddicted to chocolate ice cream, or used to be. I used to love oranges, but now they come back almost whole despite chewing. Corn is a pain. Mushrooms come out as they went in. 

I have not given up on lettuce, tomatoes (some), bananas (heavy), apples. Dark chocolate can be slow. Any processed food will come out easier, unfortunately. 

I eat rice and digest it well. Same as tortillas. Pasta is heavy, and bulky. There are days I stay home, and in those days I eat freely, to a point. I love cakes, and pastries, scones, etc. 

Bottom line is knowing how you particularly digest each food, and keeping track in writing your output so you can learn your digestion,  is not a bad idea. Also, it took me years to find the right appliance. 

If I am going to eat ice cream, once every ten days or so, I use the hollister high-output two-piece system so I can just not worry about the output --in case I eat half a pint which I probably repress in my mind doing each time I do it, so I have no recollection. Netflix and Hulu are terrible things for your diet; reading is less ice-cream-inducing. 



Reply by Morning glory , on Thu Aug 16, 2018 8:11 pm

Thanks for all of the help and good tips to my problem. Great site

Reply by freedancer, on Tue Aug 28, 2018 11:58 am

So glad we could help you! Yes, this site has been a valuable asset for Me! Have a great day!

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Reply by Past Member, on Mon Sep 03, 2018 9:09 am
Hello from Maine!!!
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Reply by Past Member, on Mon Sep 03, 2018 9:11 am

Have you considered Beano? It helps break down foods, and causes less gas. I also take one before bed, and it helps with the airbag deploying at

Reply by Morning glory , on Mon Sep 03, 2018 10:39 am

Hello Two_buttz, I have used gas X for my gas problem but will give beans a try. 

Maine is a beautiful State.

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Reply by Past Member, on Thu Sep 06, 2018 9:30 pm

I have noticed the same thing. I can eat squash and lettuce, but other veggies have to be cooked. Meats, breads, and pasta digest very well. I have had to switch bags, as my normal ones ran out (the VA for you). I am so used to clipping my Hollisters, I forget to sometimes velcro the bag, or I sometimes open it without noticing it, until I feel wetness. I carry not only emergency supplies in my car, I have 2 change of never know when that blow-out will happen..

Reply by Morning glory , on Fri Sep 07, 2018 12:29 am

Yes that is for sure. I like the clip ones better too.I don’t like the Velcro ones at all. I always carry a change of clothes if I am going to be gone for any distance from my home. J .It is so interesting how so many of us can eat and digest well different foods.  I can only say we are all unique people. Thanks Two-buttz

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Reply by Morning glory , on Fri Oct 26, 2018 2:15 pm

Thanks for your input chandler. I think I will pass on ingesting this. 

Best wishes,


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