Hello. I am brand new here. I just wanted to take a few minutes to introduce myself. I had a colostomy with radical hysterectomy in November 2017 ( in one surgery). Even thought it's been 10 months I am struggling with challenges, but am grateful for the surgery that saved my life. I wanted to find a place I could share, vent, offer support and learn. As a cancer survivor, I have the will to endure no matter what. God bless you all. Never forget you are a warrior.
chestnut
Sep 15, 2018 5:08 am
Past Member
Sep 15, 2018 6:43 am
Did you have your surgery because of cancer? I had a similar but less invasive surgery just three weeks ago.
I’d love to hear more about your journey!
Stephanie aka Sparky123
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Bill
Sep 15, 2018 11:44 am
Hello chesnut and Welcome to this site. Feel free to vent all you want as I'm sure there will be people on here who will empathise. I have found that communicating with people who instantly understand what we go through is like having a group of close friends whom you can share those things which other's, who might be closer physically, don't really understand.
Best wishes
Bill
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Mrs.A
Sep 16, 2018 12:23 am
Hi chestnut,
A big welcome from me as well. Thanks for taking the time to tell us a bit about yourself. There is a ton of information on this site. Take a look around or just ask away, we're here for each other.
chestnut
Sep 16, 2018 2:14 am
No, I did not have cancer, but diverticulitis with an abscess and the infection attached to my ovary and fallopian tube, which caused bleeding. I was extremely ill (worse than I ever remember) and emergency surgery was performed. Ten months later, I have mastered a lot; yet still have complications (a peristomal hernia). It has been a long road and I am tired. Thanks for asking, Stephanie, and thank you for the warm welcome, all.
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