I recently watched a program on TV called “undatables” the program features people with disabilities. There was a lady who had an ileostomy and felt due to her pouch that she would never find love. The presenter explained that having a disfigurement meant the majority of men wouldn’t be interested in her.
I had my ileostomy when I was 18. Yes it was hard to get over it but never have I felt undatable! Maybe a challenge but I’m a good as any one else! Yes I’ve met some nasty men who think it’s an eye sore having a plastic bad strapped to me but shame on him
I can wear nice underwear and hide me pouch, i once went on a dating site and enjoyed the fact that no one knew my secret. Who ever chooses to be with me has to be very special! Isn’t that a good thing?
Dies everyone else feel that they are no different to any one else or is it just me who is confident and proud of my lil poop bag!
To have a tv program advertising we are undatable is disgraceful? Or are we undatable?