Topic Explanation
The forum topic is about when to disclose having an ostomy to a potential partner. The original poster met a guy and is unsure about when and how to tell him about her ostomy.

Advice and Insights
- Be honest up front to avoid wasting time.
- Consider the impact of the ostomy on the relationship and be prepared to explain it.
- Have an honest talk about how you feel about cuddling as a first step.
- There's no right or wrong way to disclose, do what feels right and comfortable.
- Smile and be as confident as you can when disclosing.
- Physical attributes should not be a major factor in developing a good relationship.
- Allow someone to get to know you as a person before disclosing.
- Camouflage the ostomy bag with high-waist spandex underwear and minimize bathroom time.
- Self-confidence, sensuality, and presentation can make a difference in how the disclosure is received.
- It's a personal journey to establish confidence and find ways to manage the situation.
- The discussion about pickles is making the conversation light-hearted and humorous.

Update Inquiry
- A member inquires about the outcome of the situation with the guy and hopes it worked out.